Yerke Nokenova
Country of Origin: Kazakhstan
Degree: Finance
When I first arrived in the US, I thought my years of studying English had prepared me. In reality, I had never spoken with a native English speaker before. Those first two months were hard for me; I often struggled to understand the rapid American speech, nodding along politely even when I didn’t understand them at all. Group meetings and club events were even harder. I didn’t feel good during them, and I would go home and cry because most people didn’t understand what I said, and they always asked me to repeat it.
Still, I didn’t give up on myself. Instead of avoiding people out of embarrassment, I pushed myself to keep participating. Stepping out of my comfort zone was scary, but I knew it was the only way I would grow. Fun story, on my very first day in the US, I even taught a few American friends how to play a Russian card game called “Durak”. My English was far from perfect, but we laughed through the game and had a memorable time. That moment showed me that taking a chance could lead to great moments and new friendships!
Over time, things got easier. I kept trying new things, joining student organizations like BSG Representatives, Goff Strategic Leadership Center, and clubs such as the Accounting and Finance clubs, and actively participating in class discussions. I learned to never give up when I struggled and to keep trying, showing myself instead of staying silent.
At the end of the day, we have to make the most of this experience. We didn’t come all the way to another continent for nothing! So don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, put yourself out there, and always be open to learn something new.
During my first semester, I took a math class and went to my professor’s office hours every day to ask questions about assignments and topics, without realizing office hours were only three times a week! But it paid off- I got an” A” without much trouble and made a strong impression. Later, when I needed a recommendation letter for a scholarship, I knew exactly who to ask, and my professor happily wrote one for me. Don’t be afraid to visit your professors often! It helps you understand the material better and build connections that can be useful in the future!